
Dad & I love our calling as Empty-Nester's Family Home Evening coordinators. It is not only fun & interesting, but there are always spiritual experiences associated with it. All our empty-nesters are included; sometimes teaching or bringing treats, etc. We just make sure there's something planned. Most older people are pretty reliable, so it makes our calling easy. But more than anything, we LOVE these people, they are like family to us. What a blessing to be part of their lives, the great parts as well as the challenging parts.
Tonight was an example of the love we all share because of one of our members has cancer, (the docs only gave her 6 months a year ago). She's only 54 years old, her name is Linda. She had been doing pretty well; we were hopeful she would overcome this disease. But she received bad news from her onocologist today. The cancer is growing in her brain, liver and bones again. Mike, her husband was in charge of the lesson tonight; they were late arriving. (dad & I always have a 'dog & pony show' on hand 'just in case'.) When they arrived, Mike shared the bad news with me, I suggested she have a blessing. Afterall, we had approximately 600 years of Priesthood power represented. We went ahead with our FHE lesson (the great new Pres. Hinckley video). Then we gathered everyone around so Mike could explain what was going on.
What a beautiful spirit filled the Relief Society room while we watched those 12 great men lay their hands upon her head & administer to her with the sacred oil. Tears were flowing & testimonies of the priesthood power were strengthened again. Her blessing didn't promise a healing, but it did promise peace & comfort in her trial. We all pledged in our hearts to do what we can to help them. They have not been blessed with children & most of their family lives in California & Utah....so we're their family!
Mike was also given a beautiful blessing, giving him strength to be able to handle all that may come his way. He's a great guy.
We ALL have or will have trials. It is said 'not more than we can bear'; but sometimes we wonder don't we? Through it all we always need our Heavenly Father's help & guidance. He is ALWAYS there for us....He is waiting for us to ask. Go ahead, ask Him, He wants to bless you.